Welcome to Parenting Kids and Dogs 101, a limited series podcast for parents who live with kids and dogs, or plan to. I’m your host, Michelle Stern, the founder of Pooch Parenting. I’m not just a certified professional dog trainer and former teacher, I’m a mom too. In each episode of this series, I hope you’ll feel like I’m chatting with you, one parent to another, about life with kids and dogs, answering common questions my clients ask me, and giving you simple solutions to make your life easier and safer.
I hope you’ll subscribe and join me for the whole series, and don’t forget to grab the accompanying workbook at https://poochparenting.net/podcastworkbook/
Listen to Episode 6 of the Parenting Kids and Dogs 101 Podcast
I believe in Gentle Parenting – will this parenting strategy work for both kids and dogs?
- 100% yes. Gentle Parenting relies on understanding and respect. It avoids punishment and instead uses strategies that involve setting healthy boundaries and building strong trusting relationships to set up individuals to be successful.
- scientific studies have established that in both children and dogs, we see behaviors that are rewarded more often – it feels like coaching
- this type of parenting can include natural consequences, such as losing access to the dog if the child is too rough. or if the puppy is biting too much, they may need to hang out in a safer space to calm down where they can’t bite anymore.
- By looking for patterns, we can notice triggers and then use management to set up our kids and dogs for success. If they appear hesitant to do something, we dig in and try to identify why. Are they afraid? too tired? too overwhelmed or confused?
- By being curious, it can help us to change the environment to make them more successful
- Gentle parenting should not be confused with being “too soft.” We definitely still use limits and set boundaries such as “I can’t let you bother the puppy when he is asleep.” or “I can’t let you kick the dog when you are frustrated.” In these circumstances, we would remove the child from the situation to prevent them from doing something harmful.
Ongoing support for parents with dogs
It’s only natural for questions about our kids and dogs to arise from time to time, especially as our babies grow up and our dogs mature. And if I’m being honest, it’s not really worth asking for free advice from friends or online because you can’t rely on the accuracy of the feedback you are getting. If you’d like to learn more about The Pooch Parenting Society, where I offer practical life and science-based tips and strategies, ongoing support and a safe place to share, head on over to www.safekidsanddogs.com. From one parent to another, I see you and I promise, you’re not alone.
