Adopting an infant is a life-changing event, and when it happens suddenly, there’s little time to prepare—especially for your dog. If you’re a parent bringing home a baby through adoption, you might be wondering: How will my dog react? What can I do right away to make this transition easier? Today, I’m sharing the top three things you should do immediately to help your dog adjust to your growing family. Whether you’ve had months or just days to get ready, these steps will set the stage for a safe and smooth transition.
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If you are lucky enough to have time for a baby shower before you get “the call”…or even if you don’t (and you find yourself rushing to pick up your infant), you can tell your friends that a few targeted gifts would really help your dog with this big transition. Feel free to grab my free download, Dog Essentials for Your Baby Registry and share it with your loved ones.
Adoption will Lead to Big Changes for Your Dog
- How dogs react to sudden changes in their environment
- The importance of structure, predictability, and gradual introductions
- Common concerns: stress, excitement, or anxiety
The Top 3 Immediate Steps to Prepare Your Dog
- Establish a Safe Space & New Boundaries
- Why your dog needs a designated “safe zone”.
- Pen / crate training or using baby gates to create separation when needed. Order equipment asap so it’s there when you get home. Below are my top suggestions for items you should have on hand for safety.
- Teaching your dog to settle independently before the baby arrives if you have the luxury of time before you go pick up your infant
- Does your dog need a new sleeping location for bedtime?
- Introduce New Sounds and Routines
- Playing recorded baby sounds at a low volume to desensitize your dog
- Practicing adjusted walking schedules, feeding and play times
- Supervised Introductions & Management Strategies
- The first meeting: keeping it calm and controlled.
- Dog should be leashed and / or behind a barrier at first.
- Recognizing early signs of stress in your dog
Common Mistakes to Avoid
- Assuming your dog will “just adjust” without guidance
- Overwhelming your dog with too much exposure or pressure
- Ignoring early signs of stress or discomfort
Related Product Suggestions for Parents of Toddlers and Dogs
- My top Safety and Management Equipment suggestions
- My top Meal Enrichment items to give your dogs mental stimulation at mealtimes or when separated
- My top Treats and Chews suggestions to give dogs something to do when parents can’t pay attention to them
- My top suggestions for managing noise if you are worried your dog might wake your baby (aside from training to modify the situation in the first place)
- If you are worried about dog hair or other messes, here are my top suggestions for Cleaning Up
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